there was once an old monk who walk pass a bridge, she saw a girl squating down by the edge of the bridge crying. being concern the monk ask the girl why is she crying. she said that the man she love the most just broke up with her. after hearing this the monk started crying out loudly. the girl ask, "what are u laughing about instead of comforting me?". the monk than happy said.. "lady dun be sad, what u have lost is someone who does not love you anymore but what the man lost is someone who love him." after hearing this, the girl thank the monk for teaching her to let go of the man who does not love her and look forward to life.

i sometimes wonder.. why are gals so weird.. they want guys who treat them well, care for them and understand what they are thinking but when there is a someone who cares for them un-conditionally, wants to understand them and tries to give them what they want, the gal in return do not wish for the guy's love.. she would rather go for the guy she like and get hurt sumtimes, than the guy who like her, who not hurt her.. i oways believe that the liking for someone can be developed. sometimes its not tt coz you like the person that u are together.. but its that u have been together for so long that u are use to each other's company and losing them is hurting because is it the feelin of losing someone so close to u, someone who has spent so much time together.. at this time the slightest conflicts would turn into dilemma.. human is such an interesting or rather stupid animal.. sometimes we would bang straight in to the concret wall despite getting all kinds of warning and advise on alternative paths.. human thinking is ocean deep its hard to fully understand each and every one.. but i think it is because we always have tis barrier towards stranger tts why its hard to understand people.. why cant people open up more easily.. it mayb hurting at times when u open up to the wrong person but if its the true one its very rewarding.. imagine the happiness both will feel when one total stranger turns into a true fren..