Many a times when we are challenged to make an instant decision to retaliate or to forgive, which one is your choice? Are we capable of ~PAUSing~ before reacting?

Some days ago I chose to forgive and I felt victorious. Somehow I think I would not have felt this good if I had choosen to retaliate to the accusation then! I am utterly amaze with the “consequences”…


A Purpose Driven life---Experiencing Life Together…
“In real fellowship people experience mercy. …….. Fellowship happens when mercy wins over justice. we all need mercy, because we all stumble and fall and require help getting back on track. …………… Because we're imperfect, sinful people, we inevitably hurt each other when we're together for a long enough time. Sometimes we hurt each other intentionally and sometimes unintentionally, but either way, it takes massive amounts of mercy and grace to create and maintain fellowship.

The Bible says,"You must make allowance for each other's faults and forgive the person who offends you. Remember, the Lord forgave you, so you must forgive others."(i am no christian but i do flip the bible sumtimes)

Whenever you are hurt by someone, you have a choice to make: Will I use my energy and emotions for retaliation or for resolution? ……….”

My questions are answered. Are yours?